Couples: A Photographic Documentary of Gay and Lesbian by John Gettings

By John Gettings

Taken in the course of long island City's Stonewall 25 and homosexual satisfaction get together in 1994, a set of black-and-white images of homosexual and lesbian from all walks of existence contains their reviews approximately their lives and relationships. UP.

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We also like to camp and enjoy our time alone in a cabin in the Adirondacks several times a year. Mostly we spend our time doing everyday types of things. Our relationship is built on communication. We say what we mean and we mean what we say. We feel a mutual respect and each of us wants the other to be able to reach her true potential. After living our lives apart we both know how truly lucky we are to have found one another. , Drexel University OCCUPATION: Graduate student WHEN OUT: 1974 Page 36 Michael Brands & Robert Ollinger Ten Years Together How We Met MICHAEL: We first met almost ten years ago when we were putting together a photo event at a new club (Cignel).

We became friends over the next few weeks and her other relationship was broken off. I have been in love with her ever since. Coming Out NIKI: The coming-out process was what I expected. Mom tried to find out what made me turn gay and did a lot of her own research to help cope with it. Finally, she understood that I was simply born that way. Like anything else time helps things become more clear. I have five brothers and sisters and they all feel that if I'm happy, it's OK with them. The one person who it really affected was my best friend.

Kelly is the most wonderful man I have ever met. That lover came into my life on the hottest day of August, on the banks of the Mississippi River. It's been said that "love comes initially through the eyes" and though I'd felt that to be trite, it surely rang true when I saw Glenn, a vision in cut-off white jeans and a striped shirt. It was nearly three months before we met again. I'd been too nervous when meeting him to remember his name correctly and had no pen to get his phone number, but knew the restaurant he worked at in St.

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